Hi All,
Some reading these posts might say this site is filled with losers, malcontents, poor performers, washed up old white guys (OWG) and dreamy eyed millennials. However, I REJECT that belief.
I have a more nuanced opinion: there really is a lot of pain within this industry among some and that pain is difficult. I feel your pain, I have been there myself. Many years ago I was fired from another company for being a poor fit. I did not see it coming; and, it did not seem fair to me at the time. I was in a lot of pain then.
Nevertheless, being a long time EM employee, I can tell you that those that don't fit are noticed by co-workers. We don’t want those with poor attitudes on our team as it makes performance goals harder to reach. Also, working around this type of co-worker is generally a drag.
With respect to EM, keep several things in mind: 1) resistance is often futile, 2) dreaming for different response from EM is delusional; 3) EM will never love you and 4) there are others out there happy to take your 6 figure job.
Sorry if I hurt anyone feelings. I did not mean too. I’m just giving you the view from some inside EM. You’ll be much happier when you go. I know you will and you know it as well.
Just go.
Thanks!!