Have some compassion , if you have been fortunate enough to get some reassurance. Im sure most people have not. There’s more helpful ways to word things… like just for your information..quite a few people are hearing behind the scenes from job owners or selection reps some not-so-subtle indications of if they have a position. If you haven’t heard, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not getting one, it may be that your manager is very by the book…either way it’s best to mentally prepare for an unfavorable outcome and dont sit and wallow , start taking actual proactive steps.
If you were to give advice to a friend at another company in this same situation about what they should do… Do that, don’t waste any more time.