How do you even muster the mental energy to start looking for something new after two decades at the same job?
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Think of it as a good challenge to expand your horizons. Growth is always a good thing, even when you're being dragged or pushed into it.
I think it's also important to recognize that you will get better. I know it's kind of a sh---y answer, but you will in time feel better. This has been a really emotionally draining time and so it's no surprise that you're tired. Sleeping is probably best for a week
@d4 Oh, and btw, all my former colleagues who survived last time all gone now. Someone just had 30 years post on LinkedIn less that 2 weeks ago.
Congratulations. You are about to discover completely new world outside of red giant universe. Few years ago I was let go from OCI after new comers from Seattle tore apart my group, just 6 months I've celebrated 20 years work anniversary. It was very depressing time, it took me a long time to find a new job - because my skill were super outdated. Oh, and I was over 50. But I recovered, and eventually realized I was very good change for me. And you will too.
It’s never too late—start exploring your passion. You might build something great. Think about KFC company. Win or lose, at least it’s yours. That’s better than staying stuck, complaining about missed promotions.
Some leaders have knowingly derailed great careers to protect their own interests. I've seen top talent let go just to save face or cut costs. In the end, entire teams paid the price through stagnation and collapse. Try to add more talents in your neighborhood. A good leader should motivate talents to strive.
Actions have consequences—some only realize it when it’s too late.
I've often found the best way to get over the negative emotions of working a job is to work on something that you want to do that you like. This changes your brains from negative mindsets to proactive feelings, you feel less sh---y and like you're in more control if you're working on something you want to do.
@ah I suppose the best position to be in is "I was already thinking of retiring". Still, it svcks to hand your hand forced. But at least those retiring don't have to worry about finding another job.
Yea if you been working for two decades and it comes to an abrupt end, it feels surreal. So give yourself some time, go do something that makes you happy. Savor the freedom of not being tethered to your computer grinding it out or stuck in meetings for a bit. You’re essentially retired - for a short period of time, enjoy it.
You need to take a moment for you. Spend today doing things that bring you joy. Monday start slowly thinking/ looking for a new job. You got this.. Peace and love.