I think a job loss is right up there with death and divorce in terms of emotional impact. Many people rightly point out the differences and that it's not as bad as death or illness. Nonetheless, it can be really upsetting. I think of all the people that may lose their immigration status or have to relocate their families...scary stuff.
Its normal to feel this way and we are in the early stages of acceptance. I had someone point out that you will find a job if you are willing to relocate. If you can come to terms with relocating you might find some peace. Even though I say these things I am struggling to accept what this may mean to me and San Diego, my home town. Hang in there and your path will become clear.