Hurt feelings,
Eventually it will get better. There is nothing wrong with investing in your job/company, however, it should never be your whole life. Sometimes decisions have to be made that are bigger than any individual. Your feelings are valid, but don't let this experience turn you into a bitter person. It is not going to be easy, but with a positive attitude things are manageable. I wish you the best and good luck.
You sound like you have experience with your significant other leaving you. Probably because you are an asshole.
Investing 8 years into a company just to get thrown out on the street when the industry is in the tubes, has to sting. I have worked contract in-house for quite a few companies and I have no desire to join the corporate world. I've witnessed people drink the corporate Kool aid for too long. Corporations don't give a shit about you or your family and nor should they really. When you work somewhere do a good job but don't get confused about loyalty.
@KFC you my friend are an ass! Why treat people like that.
Because when I got laid off that was the best thing anyome told me. Stung at the moment but helped me in the long run. Be a man and take charge. Tuff love.
@kfc why so vile
You should cry. For being stupid. You knew it was coming for a very long time. Bet you were demoted at one point. Now you've waited to get laid off with 600 other people. Enjoy that job hunt. Welcome back to reality. Also I bet your significant other will be leaving within 6 months.