Working remotely permanently had been my wish ever since my managers started calling me back into the office. There was no possible way I would suffer through hours of commuting to feel awkward in an office again.
My wish got granted at the beginning of this year. In the beginning, I was basking in the sparkly allure of freedom. Oh the possibilities! I could work anywhere, at any time as long as I get the work done. What a world!
However, with time came getting used to my situation. Even in the best possible world, your brain is always seeking something better. Although I really, really love remote work (please don’t take it away from me), I’ve noticed some things that make me sad about it. Here they are:
- it feels like I’m living in Groundhog Day everyday. Every single day looks exactly the same
- I feel like someone who has just retired. I had all these dreams about what I’d do when I had more time. And now I do. It feels like a retiree trying to finally write his great American novel and not being able to get a single sentence out.
- It’s hard to make friends as an adult
I can’t move out bc I have nothing determining my location
- I have an unstable schedule
- A lot of these problems are discipline problems — it’s hard to build and maintain discipline when you have no one to enforce it for you
- It’s extremely hard to be friends with your co-workers. You have to go out of your way to reach out and be available. Friendships don’t happen “organically” like they do in the office
- It’s hard to determine how to spend your time in a meaningful way. Should I write on my blog that no one reads, should I practice my stick-figure drawing skills, should I create new projects that no one will use
- Extremely busy jobs looks appealing - My partner’s surgery rotation looks so exciting and full and life (and death) even though he wakes up at 4am and ends his day at 7pm
- You sit on your a-s all day and even walking around so your legs can get some circulation requires discipline
I have solutions to a lot of these problems. I just don’t always have the mental strength to actually use the solutions. And the weeks when I slip feel like I'm falling.