I was at the front line for 14 years, and in leadership for 6. I’m doing fine. And In my whole career I’ve never once been accused of s---ing up to anybody. Don’t download your personal insecurities on me.
In broadening the conversation, on the front line you’re often given more work that can be done in the time given. It is then your leader’s job to negotiate across or upwards.
In first level leadership you’re given double the work possible with the given resources and then you spend a quarter of your time justifying your failure.
At manager level - the danger zone - you have directors and VPs who don’t care about why your goals don’t get met. And that’s the most dangerous level in the company. The sickle routinely cleans house.
Your leaders shield you from an ocean of unreasonable demands. If they’re good at it, you’ll never know it. But to you it seems like they do nothing.