Even with the 'dignity' that Devon laid me off from my IT role, it feels terrible. It is not as terrible as losing a loved one, and my health is intact, but it is its own beast.
Other than being prepared for a layoff financially, there is no way I could've been emotionally prepared. Kids see their parents cry loudly, and ask what is going on.
It is hard, and one has to move on, but it leaves a scar.
Please don't be emotionally wedded to your job at Devon. Devon may promote the perception of integrity, family first, community first, but it really cannot be different from other companies in this regard. The sudden layoff inspite of reassurances is like reaching out for a handshake but getting sucker punched.
Good luck.