I have always hated these meetings since I got hired but tolerated and participated because it’s not weekly thank goodness.
I understand there are a lot of extroverted employees that are remote and they need that interaction but can it please be voluntary?! Especially this last one with Christmas I just need to complain to get it out of my system.
I hate being in camera, I don’t celebrate Christmas and I am not going to buy a ugly sweater or Santa hat just to amuse people I don’t have any interaction with outside of work. I hate the passive aggressive comments “ oh you don’t celebrate like everyone else?” said in a snarky tone which makes the whole meeting get quiet and awkward and frankly I don’t have the money to spend on something I’m going to use literally once. Maybe if I got more than a 20 cent raise this last year (which still blows my mind since I got a 4/5 on the review from management.) I could blow my money in a stupid Santa hat to play your d-mb grinch game but alas I need food and diapers and to feed my kids and want to be left alone to do my job, which I do very well if I go by every single 1:1 I’ve had this year, yet the department is behind on productivity but they still insist we do “ fun meetings” twice a month that last almost a whole hour it’s torture I like my job I just hate playing pretend nice with people I literally don’t even speak to outside of these meetings or being made to feel guilty for not celebrating a holiday