Thread regarding VMware layoffs

Life After Layoff (With Positive Ending)

I was part of the June layoff batch. One generic Zoom meeting and my livelihood was gone — just like that.

Initial couple of days were pure shock. First, this was my first layoff. Second, in the last one year leading to this event, my productivity was at all time high. So this layoff was definitely not perf related. However, in BCom, you are just a number and can get axed at any time for no apparent reason. Moreover, I guess I didn't deign enough at the feet of my status-seeking POS manager — hence they happily used me as a cannon fodder.

However, ultimately the layoff turned out to be a net positive for me. I finally had time and clarity to prepare for interviews. I was fortunate enough to land multiple offers with a significant TC bump from companies with good reputation for WLB balance. I'm looking forward to start a new chapter of my career.

In reflection, the seven months I spent in BCom post acquisition was singularly the worst time in my 15+ year career. I have never seen a corporate culture turn 180-degree as I saw after November. Neither I have ever experienced so much toxicity and backstabbing from the management chain. IMO VMware always had an over-abundance of status-seeking micro-managers — constant pressure of layoff brought out the worst in them. And it all flows down from one cruel man at the top of the totem pole with a God complex. When he's gone, he will be rightly remembered as the vision-less psychopath who upended the livelihood of tens of thousands to make a few ultra-rich guys ultra-richer.

Reflecting back, I have the learned following lessons:

  1. Going forward, I'll never take my employment as granted. Moreover, however benevolent they may seem, my relationship with my employer will be purely transactional ("Fool me once ...").
  1. That being said, building personal connection with colleagues definitely helps. All of the offers I have landed were initiated through networking.
  1. Like many of my smart ex-colleagues, I should've jumped ship in 2022. A PE-like firm like BCom will always exhibit PE-like behavior irrespective of their PR statement.

Just thinking about my tenure at BCom still gives me PTSD. I hope it will gradually fade away as I settle down in my next job.

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Post ID: @OP+1ueKwCbp

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Great post and good for you! Lessons learned the hard way are seldom forgotten. You dodged a bullet by getting out and it sounds like you now are in a much better place.

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Post ID: @1xxc+1ueKwCbp

“ people really throw PTSD around loosely lmao”
They deserve the real experience so they fully appreciate it

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Post ID: @1kzv+1ueKwCbp

Welcome to the gold ol' USA, where EVERYTHING is transactional. Don't grow old and useless here, if you can help it.

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Post ID: @fef+1ueKwCbp

I'm so glad things worked out for you. Personal networks are everything when it comes to finding a new role. I was a transition employee who, after considering trying to find a permanent role, decided to leave. I managed to do the impossible... via my personal network I landed a great gig working for a former VMW exec at another big-name high tech company. That day I volunteered for an early exit from my BC transition role, which to my great surprise was approved. I was able to walk out the door with my full severance, my full transition bonus, and started my new job 2 weeks later. Honestly, if it wasn't for my personal network, and a shitload of luck, I would never have had a chance to make such a perfect dismount.

So many good people and long-time colleagues still plugging away at BC, resting and vesting, and I wish you all well. But the reality is there are ways to exit gracefully, as long as you're willing to leverage your network.

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Post ID: @vyc+1ueKwCbp
people really throw PTSD around loosely lmao

Yes, a society run by these people is going to be juuuuuust fine.

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Post ID: @nvb+1ueKwCbp

people really throw PTSD around loosely lmao

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Post ID: @zic+1ueKwCbp

Onwards and upwards from here , consider this as a blessing in disguise for you , everyday your mental health would have deteriorated if you had stayed back

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Post ID: @iua+1ueKwCbp

Kudos for getting back on your feet. Layoffs su-k, but you have shown your worth with your rebound. VMware was poorly managed, so any acquirer would have to right size VMware for it to become a profitable enterprise.

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Post ID: @cwg+1ueKwCbp

You are very fortunate to have landed on your feet in such a short amount of time. Several colleagues in my group who were laid off pre acquisition were unemployed for over a year, and they were solid performers. Amazing that you were able to make it 15+ years without being laid off in this field. Totally agree with you on the destruction of company culture. Took about a week. BC su-ks. Hoping to make it to year’s end to get my bonus and then get out.

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