Grateful to VMware for all they did for me over the years. For the friends I've made, and the career opportunities I now have that I've declined my offer. I for one will not be calling the company or solutions now that I'm leaving, I hope you won't either. Definitely if you have friends who still work here.
I see people like Bob on Linkedin recommending competitor products and I think it comes across as bitter and unprofessional. 23 years he had out of the place, I'm sure he did alright. Do you agree?