I stopped thinking of any job, especially this one, as long-term, and trained myself not to panic about losing it. At some point, I realized I'd feel foolish for ever stressing about work, a manager, or coworkers once they let me go without warning or explanation. The work here is disproportionately draining, so I’ve started tuning out the noise and avoiding anything that’s overly exhausting. We already give enough of our time and energy. Why add to the cost this job is already taking from us?
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There are lots of us who are primary breadwinners who got the axe anyway who are telling you that this is not a good enough reason to continue to subject yourselves to the anxiety and stress this place heaps on you just to earn a paycheck. The daily, hourly emotional upheaval WILL make you sick, and if you are sick, who will provide? No one is saying to outright quit with no safety ne if you have responsibilities, just listen to your higher self and take tiny steps towards being able to earn a paycheck in peace. It is possible. It may not be instantaneous, but it is possible.
@OP
Anyone who is not actively trying to find another job is foolish. Don't be a sitting duck and be so dependent upon these people for your financial and emotional well being.
For the most part I try to practice radical acceptance as well, but in a country that is increasingly demonizing/criminalizing homelessness, it's also becoming increasingly difficult to relax.
Sole Breadwinner and Health Insurance so a loved one can continue with treatments are big reasons to keep this job. Not so simple sometimes
I agree with you. I practice the same mantra. However, there are employees who are the primary breadwinner of the family. And this job could be their only shot right now in putting food on the table and paying for bills. So the pressure and stress to deliver and not be terminated is of a different level compared to you and me.