It's been a while since I've filled out a job application, so I could use some help with the "can we contact the previous employer" thing. I'm not sure what to put there. If I say yes and they do, my boss knows I'm looking for a new job, and I don't see that ending well. If I say no, they're bound to wonder why and will probably toss my application in the trash.
What do people do in a situation like this?