What is a clam? I am thinking the most unprofessional thing, but please feel free to elaborate.
You all here to stop. Suck it up and get a game plan going. This is what successful and resilient people do. They don't dwell. So what! You are going to have to make changes. WELCOME TO THE THE REAL WORLD. Did you plan on staying at this company forever? Did you base your happiness on this job? If so, stop belong a pansy and deal and adapt! Wish you all the best but stop being weak you got this.