- Project planning meeting, 20+ people most are principal/managers, dir’s, sr dir’s… all telling a few engineers to add more requirements and expectations to the plan to show they already request it, the engineers need to work on all of the requests
- Project starts, not enough setup or equipment or license, engineer is told to work overtime, take shifts while the same people who ask engineers for the work still have regular hours and good work life balance, no one looks for a new license or working equipment for the engineer who really needs it to do the work
- Setup has issues, the engineer is told to go to IT to get some part to try out. IT tells the engineer to wait aside. A director comes in with his laptop, immediately asks IT to work with him to recover a personal file which he happens to save on his work laptop about his son. If the file is not recovered, his wife will be very angry.
- Team lead has dementia onset symptoms, cannot remember where he is supposed to go, which floor/building/room he is supposed to go.
- The engineer wants to have a 1:1 with the manager, the manager says he/she is too busy. A few weeks later, the engineer hears the manager tells a favorite team member that he/she is looking for a school/kindergarten/preschool/daycare for his/her child during regular work time. He/she has visited so many, cannot remember which is which.
- Review time, the engineer finally got 10-15 min of the manager’s time, got blamed for things that the team didn’t achieve, didn’t get any credit for all the work done, got a rating that didn’t get much of anything. Got laughed at by other coworkers, always worked long hours, sacrificed so much personal life, couldn’t even get a good rating, don’t even think about a promotion.
- The engineer got bullied, reported to the manager, the manager didn’t care, then reported to HR, HR tried all types of excuses to not investigate. The engineer keeps getting emails to attend HR related events to support a “positive and fair work environment… zero tolerance to bullying, harassment…”. The engineer has so much work to do, no time to attend. Then management comes, asks the engineer “Don’t you want to have a positive and fair work environment? You don’t even want to show your presence to support it?”
Getting a layoff package is a blessing.